We’re mother & daughter
with a passion to
free more soles
“free your toes. free your mind!”
We are mother and daughter. So naturally, we don’t always agree. In fact, the biggest bone of contention in our relationship to date is what inspired our book – the subject of network marketing…
I have always questioned everything. Why do I have a curfew? Why do I have to eat my vegetables? Why did I get a B on this paper? Why do I have to pick one major in college? Why do I have to work for someone else? All these questions have been a part of my life, some of which have gotten me into trouble, but most of which have made me who I am today. I don’t take anyone’s “word” on something if it doesn’t feel right to me. This is when I began to question why my life had to “look” a certain way. Just because everyone else seems to be okay waking up to an alarm clock, driving through an insane amount of traffic just to sit in a ridiculously small space called an office, and look busy all day while wishing they were somewhere else with different people doesn’t mean I had to be okay with it. Seriously! Why don’t more people see what’s wrong with this picture? I wanted NOTHING to do with it.
We’re not experts, we’re just living proof that this does work and you can have it all.
So I began to search. By search, I mean keep my eyes WIDE open for other possibilities. I was open. I was not opposed to trying something new or different or “outside” the box. In fact, I welcomed it. As long as it took me FAR away from this world that I was beginning to resent.
I found it. I believe the only reason that I jumped at this was because I was so detached from my ego that I was able to see the brilliance in something that everyone around me laughed at. No one gave me a better idea, so rather than listen to people who weren’t where I wanted to be, I decided to figure out what I really wanted my life to look like. I knew immediately that I wanted freedom, and I wanted to decide exactly how much I’m worth. No longer was I going to be told by my boss how much I was worth. The concept of this business just made sense. It didn’t require me to quit my job in order to pursue it. It didn’t require upfront education to get started. It required passion to live my best life. I had that!!
The most challenging thing about this business is the people. People who make decisions for their own life based on others’ opinions. I’ve seen too many people “get” this concept and then immediately turn around and give up because of what other people said. So I’m ready to have a conversation about this. I’m ready to tell our story, not from an expert point of view, but from a real life point of view. We’re not experts, we’re just living proof that this does work and you can have it all. It’s your choice.
A very wise man named Henry Ford said, “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right.” What do you think?
Maybe it’s time to stop listening to everyone else and start listening to yourself. I’m really grateful that I did.
My experiences thirty years ago as a single mom raising two daughters alone, have made me passionate about helping women, especially when it comes to achieving financial independence. I know what it feels like to be overwhelmed, overworked, underpaid and losing hope.
I was first introduced to network marketing, about thirty years ago, through one of those infamous secret meetings. I was so completely turned off by the entire experience – the hype, the income promises, the notion of selling to friends and family – that I swore that no matter how much money could be made, I would never become “one of those people.” Eventually, I got into sales, and I found a lucrative career with a company I absolutely loved. Unlike a lot of my friends, I had a wonderful boss, co-workers who felt like family, and a job that was very fulfilling. I poured my heart and soul into the company that I worked for, and hoped it would carry me to retirement.
Then, the industry began to change, and the owners sold the company. In an instant, I was unemployed, and left with nothing to show for my ten years of hard work. My notion of security had vanished, and I’d ended up feeling lost and wondering what to do next.
By this time, my daughters were grown and had graduated from college. My youngest daughter, Lory, had just discovered network marketing and was convinced that it was her solution – and a way that we could fulfill a dream that we both had of working together! But no matter how hard she tried to show me what she saw, I wouldn’t see it. I just could not stand the thought of being “one of those people.”
I was first introduced to network marketing, about thirty years ago, through one of those infamous secret meetings… [and] I swore that no matter how much money could be made, I would never become “one of those people.”
While on a trip together, I reluctantly agreed to read one of Lory’s network marketing books. After less than an hour of reading, all of my stereotypes and assumptions were gone, and I realized that I’d found a way to utilize my passion for helping others and my strengths in customer service and building relationships.
That was almost seven years ago and I’ve been on a mission to share what I’ve found with others, ever since.
Today, I still remember what it feels like to be overwhelmed, overworked, underpaid and losing hope. But now I also know what it feels like to be empowered, secure, compensated for what I’m worth and free. I’m more passionate than ever about helping women achieve financial independence, and I hope this book encourages them to take the second look I did, and seize the same opportunity that I almost let pass me by.